While I was waiting for my appointment at the dentist office
yesterday morning, I picked up the latest issue of Time Magazine to
read. The cover story was the 50th Anniversary of the Kennedy
assassination. I only had time to read this first paragraph before they
called my name:
"Five decades later, the assassination
of John F. Kennedy remains one of the few utterly signal events from the
second half of the 20th century. Other moments — some thrilling (the
moon landing, the fall of the Berlin Wall), others horrifying (the
killings of Martin Luther King Jr. and Robert Kennedy, the Challenger
explosion) — have secured their places in the history books and, even
more indelibly, in the memories of those who witnessed them. But nothing
in the latter part of “the American century” defined an era as
profoundly as the rifle shots that split the warm Dallas air on November
22, 1963, and the sudden death of the 46-year-old president." (I would have added 9/11 to that horrifying list.)
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My 6th grade photo |
Because this anniversary was coming, I wrote three of my elementary school classmates on
Facebook and asked them what they remembered of that Friday, when we
were 6th graders at PS 25 in Fords, NJ. I was glad to see that they
remembered the afternoon the way I did. We had been in our classrooms,
when suddenly the teachers informed us that we were going to the school
auditorium. Such a spontaneous gathering had not happened before. My class had to walk outside to get to the next building
where the auditorium was. On the way, I walked next to my teacher Mr.
Newberger. He told me that the President had been shot. I felt that news
in the pit of my stomach. That was the craziest thing I had ever heard.
It made me feel sick. When we arrived, students were seated and teachers were walking
around, some with transistor radios to their ears. Everyone was quiet. Teachers were
listening. We were all waiting. I remember a teacher started to cry. Then
another. Finally, Mrs. Schwarick, a large woman with intense presence
spoke out. She told us that the President had been killed. She told us
that school was canceled for the rest of the day. She told us to go
home. So we filed out of that room and took the walk home. There was a
crossing guard at the major intersection at Ford Avenue. She held up her
white-gloved hand, and the traffic stopped to let us cross. She fumbled with the
whistle around her neck and said, "Pray for our country. Go home and
pray for our country."
I didn't do that. I never pray.
I did watch the crowds go to the Rotunda to pay homage and say their farewells to the flag-draped coffin.
I did watch Lee Harvey Oswald get shot.
I did watch that horse-drawn caisson and that riderless horse.
I did cry a thousand tears.
OMG UPDATE: At dinner Friday night Roger asked me in what year 9/11 happened. I said it was 2001. OMG, that's right,
2001, not the second half of the 20th century at all. A whole new MILLENIUM! No wonder the Times writer left it out. It didn't belong there. Holy shit, my lifetime isn't the parameters of history at all.